Wednesday, July 9, 2008

of mistakes and ignorances...both childish..

"Past looks better in prespective"
It is actually true. when i saw a young lad today fighting with group of boys abt being unfairly given out in cricket match. i remembered the way we used to fight.
hot blows were exchanged. abuses hurled and then ..a candy for the surrender. how instant were those fights and so easy resolution. now if we fight the issues may be petty the solutions are difficult. even saying a sorry becomes so heavy on heart. before it was a custom that compulsion to compromise. forgetting and forgiving were actual and beyond the crude idiom.
when we grow up we become more mature..for what i would ask. we start avoiding mistake in the eternal race to be perfect. why?. because we feel ashamed to say sorry. when we aren't going to be perfect why not make mistakes and say sorry. it better to target imperfection and hit it than to target perfection and miss it.
children always dreamed of being an adult. now at this stage it looks so better to be in the kids shoes where all our mistake will be forgiven and forgotten under the garb of innocence ignorance. Our stammering will be praised than perfect garrulous speech.
So go ahead and enjoy the tiny moments of making mistakes and saying sorry. make childish mistakes only worthy of innocent smiles.
perhaps it will be apt to put it this way "whats the use of being an adult if u cant be childish some times"

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